Hello Sally,

I'm 75. I lived my younger life thinking I would die around age 42 like my father before me. Now, with a wife that's 10 years younger, I'm eager to out live her at her request.

I struggle with being this age because I've never really had any role models that were this age.

As I think about my legacy, my family after I'm gone; my over arching desire is that everyone else is relaxed in the life they've made for themselves. In short. If they're happy, then no matter how long I live or what condition I'll be in, I'll easily be ready to go knowing that they are set in life.

DR